Monday, November 10, 2008

David



I just had to share this photo. I love seeing the joy simple things bring. I want to reflect on things like this right now because I'm feeling a little stressed since we met with the principal, David's teacher and the school psychologist this afternoon. We aren't getting the daily phone calls home anymore but at conference last week and today at our meeting David's teacher sounds very tired of all the work David requires. She cares very much for David and is somewhat emotional about how hard it is for him to be in the classroom environment. I/We are feeling the school is really pushing us in the direction of medication. It's a very hard decision to make and one we want to be very sure about. On a positive note, the school psychologist is going to be partnering with David's teacher to make some changes in the classroom i.e., visual cues for David to help him follow the routines each day. They are going to help him build up to the 20 minute carpet time in 5 minute increments. Basically he needs help to follow routines and stay on task. We are going to try to help at home by firming up our routines and adding the visual cues as well. We will meet back with everyone we met with today in mid December. If you would pray for us to have wisdom about the next step should these interventions not help enough we would appreciate that.

3 comments:

Unknown said...

you are a good mother.
Being your son is a blessing.
May your day happy

donna said...

Hannah it is sooo fun to see this picture. If you were to look at Matt's Facebook picture it is one of him doing a backflip into a huge pile of leaves that he and his friends raked up. Yes you can tell that these boys are cousins. I miss the days when my boys were home to play in the leaves. We are continuing to pray for you and Howard and the school staff as to what to do for our David. Medication really helps some kids. You will know if it helps or just changes him to much. If you go that route it may be the best thing for him. If it is not you will know and you will be able to say no to it. Each child is different and requires different solutions to these challenges. We support whatever you guys decide.
Love Donna

Amie said...

Will be praying about this with you! Hope you had a super birthday.